“Are you “ready” or are you just “ready to be ready,” for luscious life partnership?”

Many a client has come to me saying in a somewhat (from time to time) frantic tone, “I’m ready for a relationship,” to which I ask them that very same question. Most everyone responds  with an earnest, “Oh I’m definitely ready!,” but when I dig deeper, it becomes abundantly clear, that they are just “ready to be ready.”

How do I know this? There’s often a myriad of ways, that are the tip offs for me, everyone from being unclear what their vision is for their life, and how a partnership does and doesn’t support that, to still holding on to the pain of a past relationship, operating under limiting beliefs that they are totally aware of, or engaging in behaviors that are antithetic towards what they say they want. Invariably, most of the time, I’m right. From my years of working not only with my own clients, but from my own past experience of being what I call “a serial dater,” I see the signs a mile away.

It can be so heartbreaking to want something so bad, and not realize, one is  continuing to shoot themselves in the proverbial relationship foot and not know it. So after many years, and witnessing both many heartbreaks but also many victories, I’ve created a workshop that revolves around the three most important elements in “attracting luscious life partnership” into one’s life. They are not in any way “magic bullets,” but rather key foundational elements, that when in place, you’re automatically putting yourself in a far stronger position to attract a healthy loving sustainable relationship.

So for those of you who are looking for luscious life partnership or know people who are, please join me (or forward this information) this Friday, June 18th, 7pm to learn more about The Three Most Important Things You Need to Know to Attract Luscious Life Partnership” into your lives.  It will be highly interactive, experiential and you’ll come away with the tools you need to know to attract luscious life partnership. Remember, SHIFT HAPPENS!, but only if you make the shift!

Can’t wait to see you, all the details and links to register under Live Events section.

We have everything we need RIGHT NOW to flourish

We have everything we need right now to flourish, and it’s not about waiting for our circumstances in our lives to be perfect or ideal for that to happen. Case in point – A few weeks ago, we arrive at our old farmhouse in upstate NY, and Charlie, my sweetheart calls me over, “Come quick, you’ve got to see this.  It’s amazing.”
I run down the stairs to the kitchen, and lo and behold, up from the drain in the kitchen sink is a single stem of a plant, 6” high, growing vibrantly. We look at each awestruck, confused how that could happen. We take a flashlight and looked down and there it was 3 or 4 inches into the drain pipe, right in the elbow, the roots of the plant already had started forming. How did that happen? I then realized. A few weeks ago, when I was last there, I was washing out my glass from my power shake, and one of the seeds that I make it with, (pretty powerful!) must have adhered itself to the inside of the drain pipe.
It had so little to work with. It certainly didn’t have all the basics to thrive; soil, fertilizer, sunshine, or even a steady stream of water, just some moisture. But it ultimately had all it needed to flourish. Why was it still able to grow? Because it had “enough.” Enough moisture, a strong enough anchor to ground its roots, but ultimately it grew, because it’s a seed, and seeds are hard wired to grow. That’s what it’s supposed to do. I then realized that we’re no different than that seed.
We don’t need to wait for our outside circumstances to be totally aligned to take action, or the perfect plan, though those are very helpful in the process of transformation. All we need is “enough,” and the most important thing, a willingness to allow our innate wiring towards flourishing to do its thing. That “seed” is in all of us, every moment, every day, and we have a choice to adhere ourselves to what will anchor us and do what we’re meant to do; GROW!